HABIT 5: seek first to understand then to be understood



Communication is the most important skill in life.


Is very important to understand the person that is talking before to say your opinion.  This is essential for how you want to be treated when is your turn to talk. 

For example, if you are in a reunion and your friend is telling a story and your haven't put attention at all and you just hear something that you are not agree with and you just give your opinion with knowing nothing. This can cause you problems and discusiones that you don't want. 

Also, if you don't want this to happen to you, you should not do it. An advice that can help you, is not the best but can help. If you are not paying attention to the conversation, please don't give your opinion. This can save you from being the one that opens he's/her mouth with out knowing what is really happening. 


Be aware to understand before speaking. "THINK BEFORE YOU TALK"
If you want to be understood, understand the other person as well. 

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